Nicole DeCooman

Hi, I'm Nicole and I'm a certified High Conflict Divorce Coach and a certified Voice of the Child Practitioner. 

 I too went through a high conflict divorce and experienced post separation abuse from an ex partner with NPD traits. When I first learned about NPD, it was a huge "ah-ha" moment for me. Everything started to make sense and I made it a point to educate myself and understand. This was one of my biggest strengths in navigating my approach moving forward- but not without exhaustion, stress, tears, anxiety, mistakes, abuse and injustices.  

This is why I'm here for you!

Not only through my personal experience, my education and various professions have added to my knowledge and understanding of different family dynamics.

For the last 17 years I have worked in child protection. Previous to that, I worked as a behavioural consultant for young children, with mothers managing addictions and with families with a special needs child.  

Specifically, my work in child protection furthered my experience (and empathy) with addictions, Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) and mental health, all of which I can support you with should you be dealing with any of these challenges throughout your divorce. 

Most of all, I will be that person whom supports, advocates, guides and equips you when you are feeling exhausted, confused, drained and at a loss. I will help you see through the fog and put together a plan and strategy for your goals. You deserve this, your children deserve this, and all of you deserve to have your peace restored!